5 SIGNS THAT YOU HAVE A GOOD HUSBAND

5 signs that your husband is awesome.

This article is written for wives.

You've got a great husband. You love him, and he loves you back. He works hard, is responsible, and is loyal. He might not be perfect, but you see his effort in making your marriage work. So here are some insights from moms on what makes an amazing husband.

1) You feel as if you are a team

Men and women are different, but your husband should always make you feel that he tries his best to understand you. He should always take time to discuss things with you and talk to you. When you fight, he should always have a plan to resolve things afterward and keep the communication going. You need to always feel that you are a team and that you both will do your best for your family.

2) He is a good listener

If you have problems, stories, and difficult moments - is your husband the number one person you think of?

If you're lucky enough to have a husband who's a good listener, then you know how valuable that quality can be. A good listener is empathetic and patient. They respect your thoughts and feelings, even when they don't agree with them. They don't interrupt or judge; they just listen intently until their wife feels finished speaking. And most importantly--a good husband sets aside everything he is doing IF his wife is really serious and wants to talk.

3) Is he supportive of your dreams and goals?

Are you a writer? A musician? A painter? Does he encourage your dreams, and believe in your ability to achieve them? If so, then he's a great husband!

A supportive spouse is one who believes in his wife's ability to do whatever she puts her mind to--even if it seems impossible at first. It might take some convincing, but the more he sees how hardworking and dedicated she is, the more likely he'll be willing to help her achieve her goals. And even if there are times when those goals change (which they will), he'll still be there providing encouragement and support along the way. 

A good husband is supposed to make you believe in yourself, not put you down.

4) Does your husband sacrifice for you?

Love is sacrifice.

Women have emotional needs, husbands should be willing to make sacrifices for their wives even if some of them do not make sense. If a woman says she is not comfortable with their husband playing too many games, or if they feel that the husband should spend more time with their kids - husbands should listen.

Men should also go out of their way to do something nice for their wives--even if it means going out of their comfort zone.

5) Does he treat his mother well?

If he does, chances are good that he'll treat you with respect and kindness. A man who has a great relationship with his mom will likely have similar relationships with women in general. If your husband treats his mother well, consider yourself lucky.

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If you answered "yes" to all of these questions, then it's safe to say that your husband is amazing! If not, then there may be some issues in your relationship that need addressing. 

The last question is to ask yourself if you are happy - because if you truly have a good husband, then you as his wife should be happy.