The ramblings of a self-proclaimed call center veteran - on surviving the Philippine Call Center industry.

Saturday, October 16, 2010

TIPS ON BEING FAITHFUL WITH RELATIONSHIPS


Why are call center agents notorious for being unfaithful?  Is it the cold environment?  Is it the liberated worplace?  Oftentimes agents already have good relationships that they ruin because of the sweet talkers and the sluts at the office.

So how do you avoid temptation?

1) Watch how deep your friendships will be
People with families or are in serious relationships should act accordingly.  If you are committed, then stop acting as if you were single. Make the office relationships professional, and not too personal. Make friends but make sure that you’re not "too" friendly. Focus on your work -- and get tempted less.

2) A callgirl/callboy slut will always be a slut
If someone still pursues you when it's clear that you are already in a relationship -- then that someone is a slut.
Do not give in to the gifts, the sweet words, the skimpy skirts/tight pants.  Chances are they are just dong it for the thrill of pursuing someone committed.  People like that have no respect for themselves, and people who do not respect themselves do not respect others. Do not even think that a slut will change once you become a couple.  If sluts wanted to change, they would pursue someone who was single and available.

3) Don’t be tempted by appearances
Some call center agents are social climbers -- they use all their wages to put up a front of affluence.  They make you think that they are the real catches and they give you a "bakit ngayon ka lang dumating" aura.
Do not be tempted into thinking that your wife/husband/current GF or BF, is someone less than those who have flashy accents, high end cell-phones, and designer clothes.

People serious with relationships are practical since they are planning to have a good future with you.

4) Believe in the power of Karma
If you are committed and you still sleep with call center sluts -- then be afraid…be very afraid of…the power of KARMA!

Fate cannot be mocked, you will reap whatever you sow.  So rather than feel the negative wrath of the universe, just be faithful.

5) Stop the Fantasy of What if's

Stop thinking that this person may be better.

Rather than magnify the faults of your partner, try to magnify their strengths.  It is always better try to fix a relationship first, rather than look for greener pastures.

If things do not really work out with your current partner -- then break-up first.  ONLY THEN should you start looking for another.

5 comments:

  1. don't get too close with co-workers. some will use you for your money, body and even to rise her position in the company. keep a distance with everyone but don't be aloof.

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  2. have a stable relationship at home so you will never look for something else

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  3. Regrets are always in the end. But I hope that it is not too... late

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  4. This is so true. I hope my ex-bf and the call center slut who pursued him will learn their lessons someday.

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    1. Hi, don't worry - they will get what is coming to them...hope youre fine now.

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